Category Archives: trauma

michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 106)

“Being able to say that one is a survivor is an accomplishment. For many, the power is in the name itself. And yet comes a time in the individuation process when the threat or trauma is significantly past. Then is … Continue reading

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michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 105)

i’m sure you know by now.  murray got sentenced to four years. i really don’t know what to say, that i haven’t already said. frankly, i’m tired of re-living 25 june 2009.  or i should say, i’m tired of people … Continue reading

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michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 103)

the other day, little abe (the one who gave me the framed poster of the ‘bad’ cover) asked me, with his wide eyes, if i knew you were dead.  how he asked me was between curiosity and assurance.  as he … Continue reading

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michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 102)

the ‘visitor’ has returned, slightly…  i don’t know WHY she has returned, exactly, or what triggered her to return.  i’m not particularly depressed about any specific thing…  no, she’s not close enough for me to DO anything, but she’s there. … Continue reading

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michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 101)

i’m just gonna make this quick and say, this is just too much… no, not even as in, ‘this is too much, i can’t take this’…  what i mean is, this is too much.  i am just shaking my head … Continue reading

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michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 99)

in the midst of all these people who say they love you, i feel like an outsider.  just so we are once again clear; i’m not willing to fight over the semantics of the names bestowed on you by media; … Continue reading

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michael, may you now be at peace: a reflection (no. 98)

you are free from so much…  or are you? today is dia de los muertos- the day of the dead, and still, everything seems unreal right now.  i suppose only the body leaves this earth, and one’s spirit or memory … Continue reading

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